listen make it until age 4. Yes there are sweet and fun pockets but man it is HARD when babies are young. I remember postpartum being MAD at people that got 5 hours of sleep. Then I started getting 5 hours and it kept getting better. and better. But yet all hard. If you are dying, get a bike. I'm telling you that saved me. Get a bike trailer or a little buddy seat for your bike. It's fabolous, freeing, they love and you will love it. When babies/toddlers have literally no sel